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jq;fs;; tho;f;ifj; Jiziaj; njhpe;njLf;fg; NghJkhd MNyhridAk; cjtpAkpd;wp vz;zw;w ,isQh;fs; jtpf;fpd;wdh;. xd;Wf;nfhd;W Kuz;ghlhd ,e;jpaf; fyhr;rhuKk;  Nkiyehl;Lf;  fyhr;rhuKk;  mth;fisf; Fog;Gfpd;wd.

  flTs; jhd; Kjyhk; jpUkzj;ij elj;jp itj;jhh;. tho;f;ifapd; Nghf;ifNa eph;zapf;Fk; ,e;jf; fhhpaj;jpy; jk; gps;isfs; xt;nthUth; kPJk; mtuJ mf;fiuf;F mstpy;iy. mtruf; fypahzj;ijaLj;J mtjpjhd; vd;W vq;Nfh thrpj;Njd;. jtwhd njhpe;njLg;ig khw;wKbahJ. NjtidAk;> ey;yhNyhridiaAk;  js;sptpl;Lj; jhq;fs; vLj;j  jPh;khdq;fshy; fz;zPhpy; %o;fpAs;s  thypgUk;  fd;dpaUk; Vuhsk;.

  tpz;zpy;jhd;  jpUkzk; epakdk;. ,J Kw;wpYk; rhpahdnjhU $w;W vd;gjw;fpy;iy. kdpjDf;Fr; Ra rpj;jKz;L. jdJ jPh;khdq;fSf;F mtNd nghWg;G. Njlhky; Njt rpj;jk; njhpahJ.  NjLq;fs; fz;liltPh;fs;. Njtdhy; epakpf;fg;glhj fhhpaj;jpy; rhbtplhjgb  mtuJ  cjtpAld; jpUkz czh;Tfs; ghJfhf;fg; gl Ntz;Lk;. jtwhd njhpe;njLg;gpd; ,og;Gfisr; rhp nra;a flTshy; $Lk;> Mdhy;  fpuak;  mjpfk;.

tho;f;ifj; Jiziaj; njhpe;njLg;gjpy; Fiwe;jJ VO fhhpaq;fisf; ftdpf;f Ntz;Lk;.

1. Md;kPf epiy

tpRthrp xU NghJk; mtpRthrpia kzf;ff; $lhJ.  gioa Gjpa Vw;ghLfs; mij mOj;jpr; nrhy;Yfpd;wd. khl;ilAk; fOijiaAk; gpizj;J cohjpUg;ghahf(cgh 22:10). mtpRthrpAlNd tpRthrpf;Fg; gq;NfJ (2nfhhp 6:15). tpRthrpfs; NjtdJ gps;isfs;> mtpRthrpfspd;  je;ijNah gprhR (Nah 8:42-44). tpRthrpahfpa eP xU mtpRthrpia kze;jhy;  cd;  khkdhNuhL  cdf;F  vg;nghOJk;  gpur;id jhd;.

  mtpRthrpfs; jhd;  ngUk;ghd;ikNahh; (kj; 7:13). mtpRthrpahd thypgiuAk; fd;dpaiuAk; mtpRthrpfSf;F tpl;LtpLq;fs;. rpWghd;ikahd jkJ gps;isfSf;Fs; Njtd; cdJ kzkfid kzkfis itj;jpUf;fpwhh;. mth;fSf;Fs; mtuJ tpj;J cz;L. me;j MrPh;thjj;ij ,oe;J tplNj. kzKbj;jgpd; mth;fisf; fpw];;Jtplk; top  elj;jp tplhyhNk vd thjhLNthh; cz;L. Mdhy;  Mapuf;fzf;fhNdhh;  ghpRj;jkw;w  gpizg;gpdhy; jq;fs; ,ul;rpg;gpd; kfpo;r;rpiaNa ,oe;Jtpl;ldh; njhpAkh? xUrpyh; kzKbj;jgpd; kdkhwpapUf;fyhk;. Mdhy; mij khjphpahff; nfhs;tJ  Nguhgj;J.

  jpUkzj;jpw;fhfNt jpUe;Jjiynay;yhk; Fwpj;J vr;rhpf;if. nghJthf xU ebg;Gjhd;. uhNfy; kPJs;s fhjyhy; ahf;NfhG ,d;Dk; VO Mz;L Ntiy nra;aTk; xj;Jf; nfhz;lhd;. fhjYf;fhfj;  jpUKOf;F $l vLj;Jf; nfhs;NthUk; cz;L. ,njy;yhk; cjthJ cz;ikahapuhJ. cdf;fha;g; Ngrg;gLk; eghpd; Md;kPf tho;itf; Fwpj;J ed;F njhpe;j cs;@ h; tpRthrpfs;> %g;ghplk; Nfl;Lj; njhpe;J nfhs;.

  me;egh; kWgb gpwe;jpUe;jhYk; tho;f;ifapy; mtdJ> mtsJ tpUg;gq;fisj; njhpe;J nfhs;Sjy; ey;yJ. cdJ thQ;irnay;yhk; Copak; mtsJ tpUg;gnky;yhk; Cjpak; Jiye;jha;.  eP  Mj;Jkhf;fisj; Njb me;jkhd; nry;y tpUk;Gtha; mts; M];;jpia ehb mGjhgp nry;yj; Jbg;ghs;.

2. cly; Njhw;wk;

  kzkfd; my;yJ kzkfs; mofhapUf;f Ntz;Lnkd tpUk;GtJ jtwy;y. mJ ,ay;G> Mgpufhkpd; kidtp ghh;itf;F moFs;s ngz;zhapUe;jhs;> <rhf;fpd; kidtp kfh &gtjpahapUe;jhs;> ahf;Nfhgpd; kidtpahfpa uhNfy; &gtjpAk; ghh;itf;F mofhdtSkhapUe;jhs;. fiujpiu Kjyhditfs; xd;Wkpy;yhky; ghpRj;jKk; gpioaw;wJkhd kfpikAs;s  rigia kzf;fNt fpwp];;J tUfpwhh; (vNg 5:27). Mdhy; ntWk; moF tQ;rpj;JtpLk;. vopy; Vkhw;Wk;. moF mw;Wg;NghFk; (ePjp 31:30)

  ngz;zpd; cly; MNuhf;fpakhdjh vdj; njhpe;J nfhs;Sjy; Kf;fpak;. vy;yh NtisAk; 100 rjtPjk; MNuhf;fpak; vtUf;Fk; fpilahJ. mNj Ntisapy; njhw;W Neha; my;yJ rpWePuff; NfhshWs;s xUtiu kzg;gJ Qhdky;y. JapnyOjy;>  kfg;NgW> Foe;ij tsh;g;G> tPl;Lg;nghWg;Gfs; mit ahtw;wpw;Fk; MNuhf;fpaKk; gyKk; Njit. ePjpnkhopfs; 31:13-25I thrpj;Jg;ghh; guk;giu tpahjpfs;> %isf; NfhshW Nghd;wtw;iwj; jtph;f;f me;jf; FLk;gj;ijf; Fwpj;j kUj;Jt tuyhw;iwj; njhpe;J nfhs;Sjy; ed;W. neUq;fpa cwtpdiu kzf;f $lhJ. Gs;sptpgu Muha;r;rpapd;gb mt;tpjj; jpUkzq;fspy; gps;isfSf;Fg; gpwtp Neha;fSk; FiwfSk; Vuhsk; vd;W kUj;Jt hPjpapy; ep&gpf;fg;gl;Ls;sJ. VNjh xU ghl;b> jhj;jhtpd; tpUg;gj;ij  epiwNtw;wg;Ngha;  ekJ  gps;isfs; mtjpAw Ntz;lhk;.

  cauk; Kf;fpaky;y> Mdhy; ngz; jd;idtpl caukhfNth> mjpff; Fs;skhfNth ,Ue;jhy;  gpd;dh;  xUrpy  thypgh;  kdr; rq;flj;Jf;Fs;shfpd;wdh;.

  clyoifNa Kf;fpakha;f; fUjpdhy; ey;y Njt gf;jpahdnjhU ngz; cdf;Ff; fpilf;fhkw;Nghfyhk;> monfy;yhk; Njhyhok; jhd; vd;gij epidtpw;nfhs;.

3. fy;tp mwpT

  tho;f;ifapd; Kf;fpa jPh;khdq;fSf;Ff; fztNd nghWg;ngd;gJk;> kidtp mtdplkpUe;J fw;Wf;nfhs;s Ntz;Lnkd;gJk; jpUkiwapd; jhw;ghpak; (1nfhhp 14:35) QhdKk; fy;tpAk; xd;wy;y. Mdhy; xUtUf;nfhUth; Vw;glf;$ba cah;T> jho;T kdg;ghd;ikiaj; jtph;f;f Ntz;Lk;. mwpT epiyapy; XusthtJ xg;Gik ,Uf;fNtz;Lk;. gs;sp ,Wjpahz;ilf; $l Kbf;fhj ngz;fis  kze;J nfhs;Sk;  mjpfg; gbj;j  thypgh; gyh; gpd;dh; tUe;Jfpd;wdh;. ,e;j Vw;wj;jho;tpdhy; jq;fs; JiztpNahL fhhpaq;fisg; gfph;e;J nfhz;L ciuahLtjpy; rpukk; Vw;gLfpwJ. ehshtl;lj;jpy; mg;gbNa kidtpiaf; fz;Lnfhs;shJ> jdpj;jpaq;fj;  Jtq;fptpLfpd;wdh;. jd;dhy; xU gaDkpy;iynad kidtp jd;idj;jhNd nehe;J nfhs;fpwhs;.  thypgNd> cdJ tPl;ilf; fl;lf;$ba  Gj;jpAs;s ngz;izf; fz;Lnfhs; n[gp.

  mNj ntisapy;> mjpfk; gbj;j ngz;fSf;F tPl;by; ,y;yf; fpoj;jpahapUf;f Kbtjpy;iy. fztUf;Fk; gps;isfSf;Fk; vg;NghOJk; md;igr; nrhhpa Gj;Jzh;Tld; tPl;by; ,Uf;f Ntz;Lnkd;gJ ngz;fisf; Fwpj;j NjtdJ jpl;lkhFk; (jPj; 2:4-5) Mdhy; ,d;iwag; nghUshjhu epiyahdJ ngz;fisAk; Ntiy Njbr; nry;y neUf;FfpwJ. ,e;epiyapy; ghjpg;G gps;isfSf;Fj;jhd;. mg;gbNa> fspg;G ehb tPL jpUk;Gk; fisj;j fztDf;Ff; fpilg;gJ  Nfhgk;> fLq;nrhy;> Fog;gk;.

4. nghUshjhu epiy

  nghUshjhu hPjpapy; Vwj;jho cdJ juj;jpNyNa cs;s ngz;iz kzg;gJ rpwe;jJ. mjpf trjpahd FLk;gj;jpypUe;J tUk; ngz; cdJ tho;f;ifj; juj;jpw;F ,wq;fptur; rpukg;gLths;. tPzhd gpur;idfs; cUthFk;.

  kdg;G+h;tkhf kzkfd;> kzfs; tPl;lhh; xUtUf;nfhUth; ntFkjpfisf; nfhLj;Jf; nfhs;tJ  nkr;rj;jf;fJ. jdJ kfd; <rhf;fpd; tUq;fhy kidtpf;F Mgpufhk; Vuhsk; eiffisj; jdJ Ntiyahs; %yk; nfhLj;jDg;gpdhd;. rigahfpa jkJ kzthl;bf;Ff; fpwp];;J jkJ je;ijaplkpUe;J tuq;fisg; ngw;wspj;jhh;. mg;gbNa jkJ tpz;zf khspiff;F mtis mioj;Jr; nry;y ntFkjpfNshL tutpUf;fpwhh;. Mdhy; ,e;jpahtpYs;s tujl;rizg; gof;fkhdJ Ntjj;jpw;Fg; Gwk;ghdJ rl;lj;Jf;F tpNuhjkhdJ.  kzg;ngz;fs; jPf;fpiuahf;fg;gl;l  jiyg;gpy; te;j Njrpaj; njhiyf;fhl;rp epfo;r;rpapy; kz;ngz;fs; ngUk;ghyhNdhh; jw;nfhiy nra;J nfhs;tJ tujl;ridg; gpur;idapdhy;jhd; vdr; Rl;bf;fhl;lg;gl;lJ.  kl;Lky;y  ,;g;gof;fj;jpy; ifahsg;gLk; nuhf;fg; gznky;yhk; ngUk;ghYk; fWg;G gzk;jhd;. jpUkzr; re;ijapy; fpuhf;fpAk; NguKk;  ngUj;Js;sjhy;  fz;zPh; rpe;jpj; jtpf;Fk; ngw;NwhUk; ngz;fSk; Vuhsk;. gopianay;yhk; KOtJkhf kzkfd; jdJ ngw;Nwhh; kPJ Nghl;Ltpl KbahJ. trjpapy; Vo;ikahapUe;J> tprthrj;jpNyh nry;te;juhapUg;Nghh; jpushNdhh; (ahf; 2:5) Njt kf;fsha; miof;fg;gl;Nlhhpy; gpuGf;fs; mNefhpy;iy vd;gJ Ntjhfk cz;ik.

5. fyhr;rhug; gpd;dzp

  rigapYk; rKjhaj;jpYk; [hjp NtWghL jPuhj NehahAs;sJ. A+jndd;Wk; fpNuf;fndd;Wkpy;iy. ePq;fnsy;yhUk; fpwp];;J ,NaRTf;Fs; xd;whapUf;fpwPh;fs;. (fyh 3:28> nuh 10:12> nfhNyh 3: 11)

  ekJ ehl;by; jpUkznkd;why; ,U jdp egh; kl;Lky;y> ,UFLk;gq;fs; ,iztjhFk;. vdNt fyhr;rhu NtWghLfshy; Vw;gLk; gpur;idfisf; fhzhJ ,Ue;Jtpl KbahJ. vy;yhUk; khw;Wf; fyhr;rhuj;jpNyNa kzKbf;f Ntz;Lnkd ehd; nrhy;Ytjpy;iy. Mdhy;> [hjp NtWghL vd;w xNu fhuzj;jpdhy; xUtiu kzf;f kWg;gJ epr;rakhfj; jtwhFk; ,ij Kw;Nghf;F ,dj;jth; vd;wiof;fg;gLNthhpy;  gpd;jq;fpa kdg;ghd;ik vd;Ngd;.

6. taJ tpj;jpahrk;

  Vthistpl Mjhk; %j;jtd;. kidtp fPo;;g;gbaTk;> rhh;e;jpUf;Tk;> fztid Nerpf;fTk;> Ghpe;Jnfhs;sTk; ,J cjtpahapUf;fpwJ. rhuhistpl Mgpufhk; %j;jpUe;jhd;. mts; mtid Mz;ltNd vd;wioj;jhs;. xNu tajhapUe;jhy; guthapy;iy Mdhy; kzkfidtpl kzkfs; %j;jtshapUg;gJ ey;yjy;y. mg;gbNa ngz;zpd; taJ mjpfkha;f; FiwthapUe;jhYk; gpur;ridfs; cUthFk;.

  Kg;gJ taJf;FKd; thypgUk;> ,Ugj;ije;Jf;FKd; fd;dpaUk; kzKbg;gJ ey;yJ. Kg;gj;ije;J taJf;Fg;gpd; ngz;fs; gps;is ngWtJ cr;rpjky;y vd;W kUj;Jt hPjpapy; $wg;gLfpwJ. ,J xU nghJthd MNyhrid. FLk;gg; nghWg;Gfspd; kpFjpahy; rpyh; gpe;jpj;jhd; kzKbf;f KbAk;.

7. Njt rpj;jk;.

  Kjw; Fwpg;igj; jtpu kPjpnay;yhk; fh;j;jhpd; fl;lisfsy;y Mdhy; mwptpYk; mDgtj;jpYk; fz;ltw;wpd; njhFg;ghFk;. vd;dplj;jpYk; NjtDila Mtp cz;nld;W vz;ZfpNwd; (1nfhhp 7:40) Nkw;Fwpg;gpl;Ls;s mj;jid epge;jidfisAk; epiwNtw;Wk; tho;f;ifj; Jiziaf; fz;Lgpbg;gJ vg;nghOJk; rhj;jpakhapuhJ. thypgUk; fd;dpaUk; ,f;Fwpg;Gfisg; nghJthd MNyhridfshf itj;Jf;nfhs;Sq;fs;. ehd; nrhy;Yfpwitfis rpe;jpj;Jf;nfhs; fh;j;jh; vy;yhf; fhhpaq;fspYk; cdf;Fg; Gj;jpiaj; je;jUSthh;. (2jPNkh 2:7)

  cdf;F tpUg;gkhd> fh;j;jUf;Fl;gl;l vtiuAk; kze;J nfhs;s Ntjk; cdf;F tpLjiy jUfpwJ (1 nfhhp 7 :39). ngz;izNah khg;gps;isiaNah ahUk; cdf;Ff; fhl;ll;Lk;. Mdhy; ,tiuj;jhd; eP kzf;fNtz;Lnkd Njtd; nrhy;Yfpwhnud;W ahUk; cdf;Fr; nrhy;ytplhNj. ,e;jg; gFjpapy; jPh;f;f jhprdk; vd;W nrhy;yg;gLgitfisf; Fwpj;J vr;rhpf;if. cd; fhhpaj;ijf; fh;j;jhplk; xg;gilj;J mtUf;Ff; fhj;jpU. mth; mij tha;f;fg;gz;Zthh;. jpUkzj;jpy; fuj;ijg; gpbf;FKd;dhy; my;yJ nfhLf;FKd;dhy; ,UtuJ ,jaq;fspYk; KO epr;rak; ,Uf;fNtz;Lk;. 

  Njitapy;yhj fyf;fq;fis mfw;Wq;fs;. ngz; Njl Ntiyahs; NghapUf;ifapy; <rhf;F jpahdk; gz;z tay;ntspfspy; ele;J nfhz;bUe;jhd; (Mjp 24:63) xU egiu cdf;fhfg; NgRk;NghJ Kf;fpa epge;jidfs; epiwNtw;wg;gl;lgpd; xU rpy ehl;fshtJ   n[gpj;Jf; nfhz;bU. me;j egiuAk; n[gpj;Jf;nfhz;bUf;fr; nrhy;. ,f;fhhpaj;ijf; Fwpj;J cq;fs; ,Uthpd; cs;sj;jpYk; xU mkhpf;ifAk; rkhjhdKk; ,Uf;fpwjhntdg; ghUq;fs;. XhpU jlit ,UtUk; re;jpj;Jg; NgRq;fs;. czh;r;rp trg; gl;LtplhjpUq;fs;. jpUkzj;jpw;FKd; njhl;Lg; gofNtz;lhk;. ngw;Nwhh; %g;gh; Kd;dpiyapy; n[gpj;J epr;rag;gLj;jpf; nfhs;Sq;fs;. fbjnjhlh;G nfhz;L kz ehSf;fha; kz tho;Tf;fhfa; Maj;jg;gLq;fs;.